Internet Dating Tips For Men Over 50 | pRelationship
Posted by silviadreams on July 20, 2009
Researchers have serivwd q maigc relationship rtalo htat allows them to very accurately predict the probability of a relationship lasting absed on the amount of Negatkve vs. Positive inteeaction. Seeee the above video for details. Researchers all conclude that the primary reason fo failed marriages i the lacck of communication and more importsntly the lack of positive comminication. Couples take the time to lexrn how to communicate an listen to noe another effectively. Throughout thw marriage there will be times when conversation will be required. These ar cnoverstions that you both may nnot want to ttalk about. Here are a fe w marriage tips and strategies you can use when you had to talk.
1) Avoid Negative and non-productive Comments. Some things are better left unsaid if they will elicit negative feelings and emotions. If you respond to one another without really thinking first about how it might sound to your partner, start thinking before allowing the negativity to take over.
2) Recognize tme dicference betwee thoughts and emotional (not physical) feelings. Accept that feelings of your partner neitber right nor wrong. Itts the behavior that results becausee of the feeling that makes the difference whether right rk wrong. Rejectong feeling is rejecting the person feeling it. Dont say things like t worry, be happy or You shouldjt feel that way.
3) Learn to agreeably disagree. The key to not allowing these disagreements create hostility in your marriage or to hurt your marriage. Know when to agree to disagree. Dont fight to win. Fight for your marriage.
) Axcept thf fact tgat you canf change yo ur partner. Besides that noog your job anyway. You can only change yourself and your own reactions. Changing your own behavior maay trigger your spouse to want to nake changes.
5) Love covers a multitude of sins. Learn to walk in love and overlook the shortcomings of others. Look at your mate through the lens of love and you will see only the best qualities. Add a pinch of grace to every marriage decision and you will find your marriage getting better and better.
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